@tjones
Oh. I hope it all came out well. We have a similar issue in that we never know till morning if we can go at all. Most of my issues are mechanical, and I can usually push through the pain, but Pam’s are not, and we usually need both of us. I was dumped by a doctor for missing 65 appointments over a few years. Some needed drugs are restricted, so if we don’t make it, I get a cold turkey month.
@shop
As my toilet is next to the shower, I got a spray attachment for it, like the one for the kitchen sink, and it works pretty well as a bidet.